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Make Your Confidence Sky High With These Fabulous Tips

aBeing confident is something every one of us wants to have on a daily basis. But it can be difficult to achieve when you’re feeling insecure and doubting yourself. Your lack of confidence could be stopping you from solo travelling, reaching your career goals or even dressing the way you want to. This can leave you feeling very unfulfilled but it’s not something that you have to put up with. Here are a few things you can do to improve your self esteem and walk with your head held high every day.


Deal with your insecurities

Before you do anything else, you need to determine exactly why you have such low self esteem. Maybe you are unhappy with your appearance, feel unappreciated at work or feel your partner is too good for you. Be honest with yourself and write down what is making you feel so low. Once you know what your issues are you can then work towards solving them. For instance, if you want a boob job you can look at This can get rid of the body insecurities you’ve been experiencing and make you feel more positive. Or you might want to deal with negativity in your relationship by talking to a relationship counsellor. Whatever it is, the only way you can deal with you insecurities is by facing them head on.

Never compare yourself to someone else

It’s a fact that there is nobody like you except you. So it’s completely pointless comparing yourself to other people. There are things that you will be amazing at and other things you will struggle with. It’s the exact same for everyone else. The people you are comparing yourself to may not have a lot of skills or qualities that you possess and vice versa. It’s also the same with physical appearances. It’s easy to compare how you look to everyone else and wish you could look more like someone else. But it’s just as important to see your own beauty. To start comparing less, visit and use their useful guide.

Start conversations

Starting a conversation with a stranger might sound terrifying but it can boost your confidence no end. In social situations such as parties and work meetings, don’t just spend time with the people you know. Go and introduce yourself to someone you have never met before or talk to someone you don’t know very well. The more you do this, the more natural it will become and the more comfortable you will be. Also try it in shops, restaurant and public transport. The first time is always the scariest. So look at before the event to prepare you. Don’t be disappoint if the person you talk to doesn’t make much effort to converse with you. You should feel proud of this achievement and continue to do it as often as you can.

With some time and a little effort your confidence will become sky high and you’ll be a much happier person all round. So start building up your confidence today and lead a more positive life.

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