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Is Your Man Lacking In Confidence About His Appearance?

It’s not only us women who sometimes lack in confidence about the way we look. Our boyfriends and husbands are not always happy about what they see in the mirror either. This can cause low self-esteem which can stop them reaching their full potential. This could be a temporary thing, or he might have felt this way for a long time. It’s difficult to see your partner this way, but there are some things you can do to help. So if the man in your life currently lacks confidence, here are some helpful hints that might change that.

Compliment him

Us girls love our partners to tell us how beautiful we look and how much they like our style choices. Even if we don’t always believe the compliments we receive, it instantly makes us feel better about our appearance. This is the same for guys too. They also enjoy being told that they look good. So always make sure that you tell him something you like about him. Maybe there’s a shirt he wears or a way he styles his hair that really suits him. Or maybe you just love the colour of his eyes. Whatever it is, let him know. This is bound to help him feel better about himself, and he will be thrilled that you noticed.

Offer support

There could be thousands of reasons why your man might be feeling down about his appearance. Whatever the reason is, encourage him to talk and listen attentively. Never make him feel silly for feeling a certain way and help him find a solution to his issues. For instance, if he doesn’t like his teeth, look at dental procedures he could have and visit sites like Or if he doesn’t like his style anymore, introduce him to men’s style blogs like or go shopping with him. Dealing with low self-esteem is a very personal thing and one he must face alone. But knowing you are there to help and support him will make this process far less scary.


Exercise together

Exercising is something that can help your man feel better about his looks. But he due to his low confidence, he may not have the motivation to work out. But this, in turn, could make him feel more unattractive and unappealing. So lead by example and start working out in his presence. This will inspire him to join in and could be the kick start he needed. Alternatively, you could sign up for a couples sport such as tennis or go running together. This will not only help to improve his physical appearance but make you both feel positive and happier all round. For more ideas on couples exercise activities, you could try, visit

These tips will help your man boost his confidence and make him feel on top of the world. You’ll have a much happier partner, and he will appreciate you trying to help him out. Plus you’ll win yourself some serious relationship points.

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